Last week I did it. I ripped off the Band Aid hiding my truth: everything I learned about business, I learned over a lap dance. Meaning, my time as an adult entertainer armed me with an arsenal of skills, and a level of comfort in my own skin that translated into my foundation for operating in business, and well in life.
So what? Aren’t we (mostly) passed the days when people baring it all can be shocking?
Maybe. Not in my family of uber educated conservatives or in a business career built on being the consummate professional. However, I owe more than owning my first home to dancing. That world literally saved my life.
How could an immature teen, with a poor sense of self and a belief that money was the panacea for all of life’s ailments emerge from life as an exotic dancer to find a life fueled by passion? Well, you’ll have to wait for the book for the full story, or follow along here for some hints in the coming weeks.
For now, know whatever path you’re on, it’s ok. If it’s not the one you want, you have the power to turn the page to a chapter that makes your heart sing.
Looking for a place to start?
Below are a couple of my favorite books for starting the process of connecting passion and purpose in life. I’ve included links to each author’s Ted Talk if you’d rather get an interactive taste before committing to an entire book. And of course, you could always comment below or hit me for a little extra inspiration.
- The Element: How Finding Your Passion Changes Everything, by Ken Robinson
- Lean In: Women Work and the Will to Lead, by Sheryl Sandbergh
- https://www.ted.com/speakers/sheryl_sandberg
- Start with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Action, by Simon Sinek